How do i surprise my boyfriend in bed




















Let him be in charge. Give him a day off from doing any chores, or planning anything yourself. Go out of your way to keep him relaxed. Let him plan things out. If he wants to go out, then go out. If he wants to stay in, then stay in. Plan a fun meal. Lots of people say the way to a guy's heart is through his stomach. It's probably true for many people, though, guy or gal. Preparing his favorite dinner is a nice treat no matter how long the two of you have been going out.

If the relationship is new and you have never cooked for him before, inviting him over for a home-cooked meal will be a nice surprise, regardless of what you make. Then you can cook him breakfast in bed the next morning. Plan a picnic lunch, or make reservations at his favorite restaurant.

Eating in is nice, but every once in a while, going to a restaurant he really enjoys can demonstrate just as much consideration. Go on a snack tour of his favorite food in town. Visit every local brewery to let him sample the local beers you drive , or check out the fried pickles at every local barbecue place. Pick something you know he loves and hit up all the places. Plan out the routes.

Surprise him with lunch at work. Even if he is too busy to eat it with you, making the extra effort on your part will be a sweet surprise and an effective way to show him how much you think of him even when you are not physically together. Don't forget about little things. Lots of guys are interested in things that may seem relatively small to you. Planning out something super-elaborate, like a scavenger hunt for relationship-mementos, could come off as corny to some guys.

But things that seem kind of lame to you may get him feeling the big feelings. Try out the following for a little treat: Borrow his car and put gas in it. Ask to watch an action movie he loves. Make him a huge sandwich while he's watching TV. Clean up his place for him.

Method 3. Throw the party somewhere else. Having a surprise party is great, but having one in public where you won't have to spend a bunch of time afterward cleaning up?

Way better for a dude. Either plan the party at a friend's house, or plan the party at a local pub or restaurant that he likes. Secure the refreshments. Again, this can't be overstated: Guys like to eat and drink. If you're going to throw a surprise party, get the dude-food in hand.

Figure out what he likes best and provide those drinks and refreshments. If your guy's a meat and potatoes kind of guy, plan a backyard barbecue. Get a friend of his who is good on the grill to make up some brats or grill some ribs , and make sure to get enough for everyone. If your guy prefers healthy food, plan out a trip to a local spot he hasn't tried yet. Make reservations for all of his friends, buy him a full tasting menu and plan the meet-up. Forget about decorations.

It's not usually necessary to waste a bunch of time and effort in making big decorations for a guy's party. If it makes you happy, go for it. If it seems like a big drag on your time and energy, then forget about it. He may not get how much time and effort it took you to create all the elaborate decorations, anyway. Don't give him any hints.

Pretend like you might have forgotten that it's his birthday, or plan a surprise party for him on a random day.

You can wish him a happy birthday to avoid letting his mood sink too low, but do not give away any hints to suggest that you have a roomful of his favorite people, food and gifts waiting for him back home. Alternatively, you can also plan a surprise party for an occasion that does not usually get a party. A promotion, for instance, is an exciting life event that is not always celebrated formally, but you can surprise him by planning a party to celebrate his accomplishment.

Get his friends in on it. Demonstrating that you like your guy's friends? That's huge. Surprise your boyfriend by inviting his friends over to watch a game or to play cards with him. Alternatively, you can ask his friends to meet you and him at a restaurant or sports event, then surprise him by waiting until you get there to reveal that you asked them along.

Do something with his family. If your boyfriend has a strong relationship with his parents, reach out to them and include them in your plan. It'll be pretty impressive and demonstrate that you're in this relationship for the long haul. It doesn't have to be a big party. Invite them over one evening during the week for dinner, or ask if he'd like to have dinner over there some night. It might be a relief for him that you're willing and interested.

Method 4. Greet him at the door in something sexy. Put on your most sultry, seductive outfit and greet him at the door as soon as he comes over. It will make a nice surprise welcome home for him, especially if you know that he has had a long or frustrating day. You do not necessarily need to wear something skimpy. Anything that makes you look your best will show that you put some extra effort into surprising him.

Just make sure that he is alone when he comes through the door. If not, it could get awkward. Better yet: Forget about the door. Wait for him in the bedroom. Try out a new move. Things getting a little boring in the sack? Do some research and try out a new technique or move that'll drive him crazy the next time you're hooking up.

Surprises like these are guaranteed to please. If you're not interested in a new move, wake him up with one of your old ones. Always a nice surprise. Give him a sensual massage. Next time your boyfriend is hanging out, surprise him by springing a sensual massage on him. This helps to relax your boyfriend and can be quite a turn-on. What's not to like? Massages don't have to mean sex. Even if you're not at that stage in your relationship yet, a shoulder massage can be a nice way of doing something nice for your man.

Try talking dirty. If you're usually pretty G-rated, it'll be quite the surprise if you start talking like you've been binge-watching X-rated movies while he was gone. Not to mention a turn-on. If dirty-talking makes you feel awkward, try asking him to talk dirty to you. And one of the funnest ways to do that is to surprise your mate with something he just never saw coming -- but definitely wanted. We looked at what men say they're just dying for the women in their lives to try on them.

Are you curious? Initiate sex. I'm just saying -- because with some couples, it's always the guy who gets things started. If that's you, switch the tables. When you have some quiet time alone, sidle up to him and fresh. Go bottomless at home. Yes, this is something some guys want. I think going topless would also make for happy times. And for that matter, going totally nude for an evening would probably go over quite well.

Naturally you'll probably want to wait for a weekend when the kids are away. Give him a blow job first thing in the morning. This is how a lot of guys all of them? If you've never surprised your guy with this treat you've probably never seen the happiest man alive on Earth. I jest -- but seriously, happiest. And hey, most of the time half the work is already done for you, so to speak. Am I saying too much? Start middle-of-the-night sex. If you want to surprise them in the best way, arrange to have it taken care of by the time they get home at the end of the day.

Miller , a marriage and family therapist based in Chicago. Hearing "I love you" is nice, but if you want to surprise your spouse, give them thoughtful compliments on top of those daily reminders of your love for them.

Greene recommends everything from the gushing "You look wonderful" to the grateful "Thank you for always forgiving me when I lose my temper. Not every romantic surprise for your spouse has to be an experience you do together. If you want to give your partner a gift they're sure to love, try offering them some time to fly solo. Looking for some ideas as to how to do that? Book a hotel room for your partner or take the kids away for the weekend.

And when they return from having some time to themselves, you might just find that your relationship is better for it. Want to give your spouse a romantic surprise they'll love on a shoestring budget?

Compile a slideshow of photos of your relationship or create a memento box and have it ready to show them when they arrive home. Who says you have to make reservations at a fancy restaurant to surprise your spouse with an unforgettable romantic meal?

Instead, try surprising them with a picnic at home. Prepare a meal, get their favorite wine and dessert, and let the fun unfold. Even if eating under the stars isn't an option, try spicing things up in the kitchen and maybe elsewhere later on by planning a menu full of aphrodisiacs to cook and enjoy together.

Want to really surprise your spouse? Then arrange a night out for them—without you by their side. Mead , MS.



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